a what? it's a phrase that was the topic of a bo sanchez mp3 i was listening to last night. it talks about finding your emotional WHY - the very thing that makes you wanna pursue a dream, or the very reason that will make you quit a bad habit. in that talk, he painted this very vivid picture. it goes something like this: a person talking to a father (my way of saying, i can't exactly remember if it was a make-believe story by bo sanchez or if he was talking about a real conversation he had with another person who was having a difficult time breaking the habit of smoking. anyway, i'm digressing. Father: help. i really would want to stop smoking. but i really just can't. i've tried countless of times, but i just can't do it. Man: do you love your daughter? Father: yes, i do. Man: what would you do for your daughter? Father: i would DO ANYTHING for my daughter. Man: ok. imagine this. someone is holding your daughter hostage. the man has his arm around you...